I have a court order. There is no question about it. Since my exs fiance had filed an affidavit stating that I burned my son and hit and hurt him. My daughters father just came on her life 3 years ago, but out of those 3 years she only seen him 4 times. I cant afford 4000 fora lawyer.. Me too Im up to date with child support have not seen my child for 11 years now. She is enrolled in school and has been with us now for 3 months and he decided he wanted her for the weekend and she started crying and didnt want to go so we told him NO she didnt want to go and we will not force her .. My question is can we get In trouble or should we force our daughter to go and he will never let her move back with us. Three weeks ago my 11 year old son had to be disciplined for being disrespectful to me and when his mother found out she called the sheriff to investigate. When is the last time you told that woman thank you for everything she does in a day for your child? I can simpatize with Mike because I am sure he didnt give a detail reason of his Child support issue mentioned, First all. Defendant did not pay court costs or did not give an a way of relief. Something has to be done to stop or prevent any parent from alienating the other for no good cause. and then your ex only lets you have your son for few hours. I tryed to enforce the current court order for contact. If I could accept this position I would no longer need to accept her generous gift every month. Dont try to explain yourself, only speak or communicate with your narcissistic ex information that is absolutely necessary. Her eyes red filled with panic, sadness, and schere terror. Hi, Then she is given the power to come and snatch the children from us without any warning. The Dads like me that want 50/50 instead of every other weekend, and miss our kids so bad when they are gone our hearts ache. My exs wife told me we are handling this today! If anyone has anything to help with please let me know. How did the motion to enforce turn out? I dont mean to be pesimistic, because I am going throught the same thing right this second. Let me back track one moment by saying all of this was made possible by a dishonest process server. If his intentions are trying to get custody can he go to the courts and be granted even though I have sole custody? Its as simple as that. I need help I have no idea where to turn at this point she is like a ghost. Alberto Morales, 42, somehow obtained a sharp object and stabbed one of the officers once in the neck and three times in the back Monday night outside a Walmart in Grapevine, Texas, police said. I would have the police go with you to the school. The special guardian wont even do mediation. Do you know the name of their doctor? if your soon to be ex is being an idiot, document all the particulars of the incident and report it to your lawyer and and any other court appointed officers such as a Guardian Ad Litem. I went through legal aid for assistance but they are taking forever to send a court date. These custody papers that are presented to police are typically copies of copies. Where are you when someone has to snap on the 5th reminder in a night to please turn off the lights, or when someone has to tell your child to wear the same jeans again to save on laundry costs? Your daughter needs counseling, but there also needs to be a psychological investigation for parental alienation, and an enforcement order. Joseph Cordell, Principal Partner, licensed in MO and IL only. Have your wife keep a copy with her as well. I seen a letter that was in my sons handwriting stating things that were not just dishonest but were flat out wrong or never happened. Additional Public Prosecutor Amit Sahni, representing the state, sought direction the Gaur couple to pay Rs 10,64,055 towards the expenses or salaries of guards deployed with them during their . But the mothers wont allow it. When an exchange happens in a public place (like your child's school, daycare, or a location near a police station), there's less risk of altercations as the presence of other people can help to dial down tensions. When you wrote this as I read it I started to cry. What should I do? My advise is this; Make sure you have all of your documentation on hand. Shes been in a hotel for all we know because she hasnt called to check on the child. Two weeks pasted it was my court ordered weekend and I went to her rental house at the court ordered time and date. What happens than? Gabriela Miller, you need to mother up and encourage the relationship rather than sabotaging it. In a supervised exchange, a neutral third party is present to shepherd the handoff. The ex insisted the sheriff arrest me for assault on my son, but when they refused she decided from that point on she was going to go back to our original court ordered custody and visitation agreement. Is this considered the mother abandoning her child? Funny how the remedys dont include Contempt of court and/or jail time like they do if you miss a child support payment. BRAD: I know this must be a scary situation your in but if you question it kidnapping then you already know deep down the answer my advice is to try to get along with ur ex the best you can file a motion for joint custody asap. Raising children is not a game of narcissism and rewards for good behavior. Hed like him to come visit. There have been multiple examples of child custody exchanges ending badly, often in tragedy. Tags:divorce tips, editors pick custody, kidnapping, parenting time, visitation. Instead, the custodial parent must seek a custody modification and provide evidence that spending time with you is harmful for the child. I have a question. Im thinking is felony eluding, child endangerment, & kidnapping. A custody exchange is when one parent hands the child off to the other. It says he will have to give you back that missed time and pay your lawyer fees, so dont be scared. All I know is the special guardian says its up to the local authority, to set contact up. If you feel it necessary call the police and have the incident documented. I have 50/50 custody in which my son switches houses every week, which has never been a problem, and my girlfriend has an order that basically has no specific times, but states that both parents have to agree to the visitation. The officer may or may not create a police report, but you have still have a case number regarding what had just happened and you can use this to build your case against your ex regarding child alienation, visitation refusal, contempt of decree for visitation, etc. I dont know the for sure details about the comment you posted this too but let me ask you and anyone that agrees a couple questions and answer honestly Im not trying to argue I just want to know how people think these days. I tried to get a ppo but it was denied for lack of evidence and the judge said that he said those things because he was mad. It also provides information on vehicle selection and fleet management. The Thibodaux Police Department recently created a safe . Your awesome, thus is the first piece of mind Ive acquired since my ex wife after abandoning me and our three children 109 & 7 three years ago, and she had some guy come from new York where she is and took them from theyre school. My ex had moved and taken my child with her and this time she has not updated her address with TAG. Youre defending yourself. In our divorce decree, it says there needs to be open communication and there is almost none. I needed to get away from him he was verbally abussing me putting his hands on me putting me down all the time choking me while Im pregnant with twins I just couldnt take it anymore I needed my family I needed a support system I was afraid for me and my daughters life! This is crucial b/c now the officer knows you are wanting to be amicable, calm, collected, and just want visitation with your child(ren). They are in a different school district! The court order says in even numbered years the children will be with me from dec 24 to Jan 1 at 7pm. Do not assume that you can make changes on your own unless the court order specifically says that you can. It was me or acs so as a real father and a family man i step up as dad. However, in our experience, when my husbands ex kept his kids on our weekend, we called the police and her boyfriend was there to refuse to give them to us. Michelle Ferreri licensed in PA and NJ only - Philadelphia, PA. Dorothy Walsh Ripka licensed in OH, IL, MO, KY and TX only. he then does not return her, he removes her from school during his non placement time and keeps her for 3 to 4 days( no knowledge of where she is staying) . I did so much to ensure a good relationship and they took advantage and took my son from me. She is also coaching our children into being scared to go with me. I dont know what to do about him constantly filing false reports against me. This includes police, banks and anyone else dragged into the ugly procedure. But my ex husband never picks her up or drops her off at our meeting spot his mom and her boyfriend do. Look up the schools around the last known address and acquire there year books or access to them online. So when I got there he serve me wit a paper saying he has temporary custody of her and that she needs to reside with him! and the funny thing is its supposed to be about the kids but they seem to be the last ones that the Court worries about. I am afraid one day i will be arrested and my son will see me hauled off in hand cuffs.what can i do? The school has to have legal documentation on file as well from the court in order to be able to tell you that you cannot see her. I even bought my son a cell phone and of course his grandmother took it. My sons father is a minister, it makes me sad that his congregation doesnt know what a monster he and his mother truly are. Couldnt you have filed for emergency custody? And heaven forbid she start dating or have a boyfriend, isnt that his problem who pays his damn water bill then? She never told me, but notified the boys school so when I went to pick them up from school, the school would not release them to me. It does not pay to work with the father, Ive given more than most women and it did nothing other than to have his father steal my son from me and his fathers mother to tear me down in front of my son. My teen son said he wanted to try living at his dads, and I wanted to show him I supported him, so I agreed. Let me know if you can help! Bring a police officer as a witness if theyll come. I have a question for a friend of mine. A week later he calls me to see the baby and I tell him I was in Florida so he went to court and had made a police report in buffalo saying I violated the court order. All I want to do is protect my Little girl from this maniac but am unable to fix the damage already done to my daughter. Do you know what insurance your child has? I called the police, they met me at her house, where my son was. I just nee honesty from people like yourself. If you have corresponded via e-mail or text, print them out, but make sure that you have been calm and amicable in every aspect of the correspondence otherwise the officer will still see you are on the brink of aggression. Amy. Clearly youre looking for a way to run a scam. He was a mental abuser, and won custody of my daughters because I couldnt get the nerve or money to stand up to him 11 years ago. Maybe you have bipolar disorder. Also, Im really confused how its possible that you have a court order that says your son is to have overnights. Even when I couldnt afford the support I couldnt see him due to his father! We have an attorney but cant reach her . How many packages of $12 toilet paper do you buy in a month, or tubes of $4 toothpaste, or bottles of $2 hand soap? Mine is still doing so. Being a dad is the best thing I ever did. A court order that mandates or prohibits conduct is typically executable through the police. Most of the time things get better when the dust settle and everybody falls into a post-divorce routine. So why wouldnt any other circumstance as dad be valid? Social services have never helped me ever. Better get your butt back to court. If filing a police report for a custody violation doesnt work, you can always file a Motion to Enforce with the court. My sons mom has been moving from city to city with my then 2 year child. Go back to court and report hes been absent and ask that the order be adjusted accordingly. And if so should she be paying child support and should I hire a lawyer to try and get full or more custody? she caused seen one day then got cps case i gave her custody and whatever but kept parental rights and 3 he 3 day a week all then I hmget notice that visitation and custody is as family law stated only family law case is from me taking her dam law and got 49 %custody her 51 ads I let her b sister while at work but always dose way want comes goes with kids hide lies and now reported for sure all week did not see kids and Im reporting and thinking press charges, So what happen my kids mom she has violated order one week called police everyday to prove no matter way she violated.i know if I just got up bounced use be arrested she had me come over one time bring son batteries she was not there and her grandpa pulled gone threatened to kill me shoot me in face I call police and I go to jail I dont no way her and her side say but with my past and whatever they tell cops to do it I wonder she such liar really rose murr, Thats a perfect question!! all Good parents need to recognize that the problem is bad Judges and bad Attorneys. Mom places son in a mentor (father-like) program on Saturday afternoons, dad must take son to meet a man that then takes him to walk the mall and have lunch for 1 1/2 to 2 hours out of the 8 he is given for his visit. For instance, a California man shot and killed the mother of his infant sonduring a child exchangeat a police station. I cannot get it out of my head. He will not take them to the doctors when ill (strep and worse). Why cant your children grow up with a mother who lives a comfortable life? Violating Child Custody Orders: Should You Call The Police? Should he contact his lawyer to try to get full custody of her? Please go to a lawyer and take him court. Im currently in a situation where I havent seen my son in a year for his father ( who has custody) tells me no I cannot see my son or tells me I should ask the god mother if I can see my son even though the god mother hasnt any custody of the child at all! If a man or woman abuses their current or ex mate or spouse why wouldnt that person abuse the child that isnhalf of that other person? So for the past two years we have shared custody one week on and one week off. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements. Mead has given him power now in his own mind that he is untouchable. I myself am going trough the same thing. Why cant they have a mother who doesnt try her best to hide the anxiety in the house that comes from never knowing when your next payment might be? We have compromised on our schedule here and there but recently I got in trouble, an OWI. And I said, no your not, we have a child visitation order. Are you doing these things, and if given the chance, could you do these things 24/7? So, I am going back over there this evening with my mom coming with me. Please help me out! Firms, Child Custody and Visitation Questionnaire. This pain of a million death everyday cant be bared anymore!!! Will I get in trouble by the court for withholding him? Furthermore, I have just learned from my 14 yr old daughter and 15 yr old son, that every night they are with their father, he leaves them overnight in his apartment and goes and spends the night with his girlfriend at her apartment on the other side of town. You can say, honestly, that you havent done disgusting things to your ex?? Get to a place just a block or two away from the exs home and call dispatch stating you want to have an escort and consult with an officer regarding your visitation and youre wanting to keep the piece. Keep taking her to court over and over until she gives in or gets contempt for kidnapping. The courts dont care about children & neither do the money hungry lawyers who trick you into thinking they care. And believe it or not, there are Mothers, like me, who have ALWAYS tried to make things better for the children/father relationship. Only three showed up at the motel. Shame on both of you. How many bathtubs full of hot water do you pay for in your house each month? This is a huge help to the officers when they respond. One day my sons grandmother (dads mom) picked my son up, made fun of me because due to an illness and months in the hospital I temporarily need a walker, she then belittled in front of my son she then took my crying son and left my home. Last weekend was supposed to be my weekend, and my ex only brought my youngest boy and said my 11 year old opted to not come. Your xes wallet can only run so deep. If I wanted to keep my daughter until I can take him back to court can I without getting in trouble? Not trying to lock her up, just want to see my son. I know this is dads divorce site but I am nothing like the moms you have to deal with. UICPD does prohibit some transactions at the Safe Exchange Zone: Illegal transactions, including, but not limited to contraband, narcotics, illegal substances, stolen property, or other illegal items and/or exchanges. 3 The wife will give you the child(ren). A work obligation? My boyfriends sons mother. Go back to court immediately asking the court to terminate mother's visitation rights and ordering her to return the child, forthwith. HE HAS AN ATTORNEY AND THE GAL is bias. police custody and other custody facilities, secure facilities or hospital. I didnt feel alone anymore. She does not want me at her house. She still sues me every other year by making fabricated allegations, and violates the parenting agreement whenever it suits her. Oh my Goodness. Your wife and daughter may have operated under aliases or Nick names and if you acquire that information it could help you locate them where they are now. Hi, all. my daughter mother veronica k. Bennett lost custody of trinity amor whittington in court back in 08/2015. Christina Sapiano. There isnt any other way. I do not see people the same way anymore. I feel like the judicial system is heavily unbalanced. Smh. I have been civil with my ex since I left him for beating for the last time. That is between you and the man you once loved enough to open your legs and have children for. It does depend on the officer, but it also helps to be very calm and collected. Everyone knows youre a damn good father. I can definitely say I fulfill your shoes and add to all of that, dealing with a mother who besides taking child support, lies to the state and still collects welfare! My wifes ex has full custody recently he decided to let one of the girls age 11 move in with us . If you have a court order that says overnights are allowed, then just ignore your ex and give him back your son when the overnight is over. I have gave the social services a copy of my proposed supervisors, 6 times via email, and they have ignored it. We are from MS, and they have joint right now with her being primary because we live 2 hours away from her. He is a complete loser with zero regard for the kids BUT the Judge knows every single bit of this and due to her connection to some Male Coalition (az judge Mead), she ignored everything and ruled for the dad. My Ex-Wife calls me on the phone and says, come say goodbye to your son. I hope this helped you. Do you realize just how much you are doing to your childs quality of life and wellbeing of their mother, just by doing nothing? So, I am at a loss what to do. Go to court, file a motion to strip any and all visitation. Dear God my child will be an adult thinking I dont love her enough to co tact her before this is over. You can use forms to help you write your custody and parenting time agreement or submit them to the judge when you ask for a custody order. We have a court date for my objection on August 15 2017. And many more men would love to do all of that if the woman would let them have the children 50/50. I am a single mom who has made sure that I follow all the placements in the custodial order. She is obviously crying out for attention from me, that I havent been able to give her. Document everything. Orders for parenting time carry the same court authority and therefore are technically enforceable by the police. Ive begged her for weeks now to tell me if there is anything I could be doing or should do before our court date in four days. The boys have only been able to see their dad 8 to 10 hours a week on Sundays due to my exs job. We are worried that shes not telling the truth like always. Additional Public Prosecutor Amit Sahni, representing the state, sought direction the Gaur couple to pay Rs 10,64,055.He said the matter requires larger consideration as prayers for custody parole on behalf of undertrial prisoners are considered by district courts beyond the normal prescribed period of six hours, as per Delhi Prison Rules, 2018. Do you have a child or children or a niece or nephew or any child period that you would die for? I plan to get an attorney, im sick of him thinking he has some power of my 15 old daughter that hates to be with him! She refuses to communicate also. I was granted visitations through the courts and every time I saw my son his father always told me how long I could have with my son! If you think that the parenting plan is no longer in the best interest of the child; then you are free to file a motion with the court to have it changed. Custody X Change is a powerful tool that helps parents create and track professional-quality parenting plans. In my case, it does apply to me as a father. Could you do all of this alone? she lied she just want me to let her have my daughter so she can run with her. If she does respond, it is a one word answer. Mike though I am a mother who been falsely alleged of child neglect and substance abuse by a covert narcissist father of a 18 month old child I couldnt stop my tears reading your post it felt like u poured out my heart. Where are you in the grocery store when someone has to tell your child no, they cant have the poptarts with cartoon characters on them? You need to go today to the court pay 160 for emergency custody they will give a court order rght away, Im in the same boat u have to go to ur local court family court file a petition for full custody ..an youll get a up in coming court date..bring proof child has been with u since birth. I spent 11 years fighting the worthless legal system we have in this country, and guess whatI am giving up. Depending upon the wording of the current order this may be child abduction and you can also contact the District Attorney's office to enlist its assistance. You want to know why most woman wont give fathers (that want it) 50/50 custody? For example, the normal changeover time for a child on . Everyone should learn and read court process rules and start figuring it out correctly. Gotta love the double standard heresmh, Unfortunately, enforcement of a divorce decree sometimes depends on the attitude of your local law enforcement.. SMH. Can anyone help ?!?!! Shes now openly violating the parenting agreement and not letting me see my son. There were many incciedents between us such as argueing and him putting his hands on me and still remain by his side for the sake of our kids. I went to visit my kids and I did a lot of researching and verifying with the County PD of where I was visiting. But last year she took 4 months off being a mom. No contact between mom and dad. 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